How Can I Help My Child's
Teacher?
Parents and Teachers Working
Together
Canadian Hyperlexia Association, Edited by Robin Leszner
We should all know that we can effectively help our child's teacher by ensuring that our child gets proper sleep, eats a healthful breakfast, and dresses according to the weather. We must keep our child home when he/she is ill, provide a place at home at which to do homework, encourage resposibility, and make the time to listen, talk, read and play with our child. And it is important that our child knows that we are partners with the teacher in this educational process.
Yet, when we posed the question to parents in our organization, the overwhelming response was:
"PROVIDE INFORMATION!"
And this response raises more questions.
What information should we provide, how much information should we provide, and how should we present this information to the teacher so that it can be most easily used to provide the optimal setting for our child?
First, we must prepare information for the
"initial contact". This will help the teacher orient
him/herself to your child's specific strengths and needs. It
can be presented in 2 parts:
1) Information on hyperlexia;
2) Information specific to your
child.
Information will be most helpful if it is presented
in a clear, concise manner that can easily be used as a reference
during the initial adjustment period.
INFORMATION ON HYPERLEXIA
That's easy! Provide copies of CHA materials
such as:
"What is Hyperlexia"
"The Hyperlexic Learning Style"
"Selected Strategies"
The Reader
READING TOO SOON can also be an excellent resource,
but remember that a teacher may not have the time to read a book
initially. Perhaps a copy can be provided to the teacher so
that he/she may keep it as a reference throughout the school
year.
INFORMATION SPECIFIC TO YOUR CHILD
We have found that the most effective way to present information on our children's specific characteristics is to catagorize them, as follows:
a) SENSITIVITIES/FEARS
List them with the types of
behaviours to expect and how to accomodate for them;
b) TRANSITIONS/CHANGES
Note what type of changes are of
concern, the behaviours to expect and effective coping
strategies;
c) STRUCTURE/ORGANIZATION
State your child's system of
organization that provides his/her the most comfort;
d) LANGUAGE
Give information on expressive and
receptive levels, speech-language therapy and the
techniques the
therapist uses, if applicable;
e) COGNITIVE
ABILITIES
Discuss attention span,
distractibility, impulsivity and perseveration, attention/memory,
reading level, strengths vs. weaknesses;
f) ACADEMIC
State reading level, strengths vs.
weaknesses, verbal language, written language, math concepts and
general knowledge;
g) SOCIAL
Note developmental level of your
child's social skills, and describe type of play, conversation and
sharing and what helps your child socialize;
h) EMOTIONAL
Describe your child's confidence
level, self-esteem, how your child copes with anxiety and what
relaxation techniques are helpful;
i) PHYSICAL Provide information on fine/gross motor skills, body awareness, sensory integration, information on occupational therapy and techniques the therapist uses, if applicable.
(see the table below for an example of this format and presentation.)
Be sure to include previous reports from school(s) and appropriate reports and recommendations from therapists.
Let the teacher know that you would like frequent communication and that your expectation is that he/she will provide a program based on your child's abilities and needs.
Secondly, arrange an appointment for a few weeks into the school year to discuss the school programme, to set mutual goals in the above areas, and to establish a system for continued communication and information sharing. This can be done through regular telephone calls and/or "communication journals", which travel between school and home each day.
This way of providing information has helped many
parents and teachers create optimum environments for learning and
growth for their children with hyperlexia.
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SENSITIVITIES/ FEARS |
J. is fearful of loud noises such as school bells and fire alarms. We try to warn him by writing a social story (the bell rings at 9:00 a.m...) If the noise takes him by surprise, we hug, and write down calming words. Relaxation techniques have been helpful. He is very sensitive to tastes and smells, and has a limited diet that he will tolerate. (That is why he brings the same lunch every day) |
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TRANSITIONS/ |
J. thrives on routine. Transitions are made much easier if the routine is noted beforehand on his daily schedule, and read. A change in daily routine is best written on his calendar, then read. |
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STRUCTURE |
J. uses a daily (detailed) schedule, and a monthly calendar. These seem to calm him. |
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LANGUAGE |
J.'s expressive language is at approximately a 4-year-old level, with receptive language at early 5-year-old. He responds best to simple commands of no more that 2 steps. He has difficulty with pronouns and wh- questions. See inclosed Speech-Language report. |
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COGNITIVE ABILITIES |
His rote memory is good (visually) and his attention span is significantly longer if he is reading. He cannot concentrate well yet if the lesson is completely oral. When he is anxious, he will perseverate. |
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ACADEMIC |
J. can decode words at an early 5th grade level, although his reading comprehension is closer to JK level. His concept of numbers is strong in Mathematics, but problem solving is extremely difficult due to comprehension difficulties. |
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SOCIAL |
J.'s social skills are delayed. He enjoys interaction, but he does not yet know how to interact appropriately. He still engages in parallel play at times. He can share and engage in simple conversation if guided. Social stories, scripted and rehearsed conversational models are very helpful. He will follow classroom rules and expectations if he understands them (they should be written down). |
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EMOTIONAL |
J. can be very anxious if he doesn't understand expectations. The written word calms him down. |
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PHYSICAL |
J. has some sensory integration difficulties. (See attached O.T. report. Contact his O.T. for further clarification and help) His fine and gross motor skills are also somewhat delayed.(Sample of information sheet provided to J.'s teacher. |
